5 signs to know when is time to let go.

Published by Acrimonious Paradise June 7, 2021

Friends, family members, significant others should treat you with love and respect. Anything less than that, I would let them go.

You can’t lose something that was never for you in the first place. As you raise your frequency there will be people in the world that will try to pull you down onto their levels and we need to learn when you can grow with people or when you need to grow apart from them.

It may seem to be selfish to care so much about yourself and your space but it’s so much better than spending time with people who tear you down and feast on your energy.

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1- THEY WASTE YOUR TIME

Are they hours late with no explanation? Or always seem to cancel on you when something "better" comes along? Like you are some type of backup plan or something. Delete them, block them, and subtract them from your life. We do not have enough time in our lives to be waiting around for people who do not value your time. See who your true companions are when you aren’t as expendable.

2- THEY BELITTLE YOU AND YOUR PASSIONS

Is there someone in your life that makes you feel worthless, like you’re not going anywhere in life? Do they laugh at your dreams & tell you will never make it? For a lot of us this is our family, the people closest to us that make it difficult to just delete them from our lives. May it be an aunt, your parents, a role model, call them out on their disrespect with an elevated energy? SET BOUNDARIES! Make it known that the disrespect is unnecessary and not a way to communicate with you. People will act however they want, but you have complete control over how you react; be weary of the dynamic of your relationship and the other person’s perspective.

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3- THEY DRAG YOUR NAME THROUGH FILTH

This is not on any he said she said bullshit. If you have the receipts, the evidence, literally hearing them drag your name through the mud. Do yourself a favor and stop letting them into your life. How many times will it take you to learn the same lesson for you to actually make the change?

4- YOUR INTUITION TELLS YOU THAT THEY ARE NO GOOD

Do you feel drained after being with them? Do you always end up in a regrettable situation with this person? So much so you get this gut feeling that it’s wrong to be with them? Listen to your intuition, its literally screaming at you to get out, try tuning into your gut for a change.

5- YOUR REALATIONSHIP IS A ONE WAY STREET

There is no actual fuck to give about how you are doing with this person. It’s always can you take me, can I borrow, can I have, etc., etc. I am a compassionate person but my kindness much like everyone else is not unlimited. They may find you to be a good resource for anything they can take advantage of. It’s always nice to help out your neighbor but never at the expense of yourself. And if you find them distancing from you because you said no let them keep that distance.